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Opinion: I lost my child to the flu: Please protect yours

young girl who passed from flu

This opinion piece by Zachary Zaksich appeared in the Traverse City Record-Eagle. Read more here

If you haven’t gotten your flu shot yet — or haven’t gotten your kids their immunizations — I hope you will. It could save your life — or theirs. It could save you the kind of heartache I and my family live with every day.

It was one of those ordinary February-in-Michigan days. Our family spent the hours together playing games inside, eating ice cream sundaes and watching movies. Our 5-year-old daughter Alana was a little lethargic in the morning but felt better as the day went on and didn’t show any real sign that she was sick.

That changed in the middle of the night when she woke up vomiting with a 106 degree fever. Soon we found ourselves in an ambulance, then in the hospital. The doctors and nurses worked hard to get her fever under control and to figure out what was wrong.

When the doctor told us they’d finally diagnosed her with influenza, I was relieved. The flu is treatable. Everybody gets “the flu.” The doctor kept talking, but I’d tuned him out.

He had to repeat what he was telling me. Alana was struggling. She had swelling around her brain. She’d suffered serious complications. She wasn’t going to make it.

Less than 24 hours after we arrived, Alana lost her life to the flu. Ours will never be the same.

The years since have been difficult. I don’t want anyone to go through what I go through to this day. That’s why I established Alana’s Foundation to help educate the public about the importance of yearly flu vaccinations. Our 100 percent volunteer-run organization works to prevent deaths caused by influenza, a vaccine-preventable disease, and to provide support for families whose child has died from any illness. We hold flu clinics, we do patient education, and we do family support. Too many families need it.

Already nationally this season, at least two children have lost their lives to influenza. Many others have suffered serious illness.

When Alana died, there hadn’t yet been a CDC recommendation for the flu vaccine for kids. That’s changed, though. The CDC now recommends that anyone over the age of 6 months get an annual flu shot.

With the additional strain of the COVID-19 pandemic on the health care system and on families, it’s more important than ever for Michiganders of all ages to get vaccinated against the flu to stop the spread of preventable diseases.

In the United States, the flu season typically peaks between January and March, with February having the highest rate of disease reported. That’s right around the corner, and it means Michigan is currently in the middle of flu season. It also means it’s not too late to protect yourself and your family.

Alana loved to dance, and she loved gymnastics. She was my princess. Everyone wanted to be around her. I never knew the flu could kill children until Alana died. Our family will never be the same and we miss Alana every single day.

We only hope others do everything they can to protect their children from the flu. Get immunized. Get your kids immunized. Flu shots save lives.

 

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